My Blog http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com Thu, 04 Sep 2008 19:39:05 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6 en We all know how it is to be heartbroken http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/we-all-know-how-it-is-to-be-heartbroken/ http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/we-all-know-how-it-is-to-be-heartbroken/#comments Thu, 12 Apr 2007 00:37:07 +0000 totsherol http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/we-all-know-how-it-is-to-be-heartbroken/ We all know how it is to be heartbroken. I can’t count how many times I’ve fallen apart and drenched my pillows with tears. And I now dread to imagine how hopeless and devastated I felt each time.
There was a time in my life I was able to get over the distress no sooner than one whole year. I just couldn’t shake it! But I hung on, knowing it would pass somehow and lived from day to day. Now, when I looked back, I still don’t know why it lasted that long, and now I survived. I learned a lot about myself then–and about love, and pain, and endurance, and moving on. And that it’s never easy. I’m saying sometimes it takes a while, so don’t be too hard on yourself. The healing will take its course. Your mind is telling you to recover quickly, but heart is still raw. Like nursing an open wound, no matter how much your mind wants it to dry, heal and scar, your tissue can only do what it biologically can. Same with emotions. You heart can heal only at the rate it is capable of.

]]> http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/we-all-know-how-it-is-to-be-heartbroken/feed/ You know you have wasted money when… http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/you-know-you-have-wasted-money-when%e2%80%a6/ http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/you-know-you-have-wasted-money-when%e2%80%a6/#comments Thu, 12 Apr 2007 00:36:23 +0000 totsherol http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/you-know-you-have-wasted-money-when%e2%80%a6/ You know you have wasted money when…

• You sleep at a movie house.

• You text someone who doesn’t reply.

• You treat someone out and he/she forgets to thank you.

• What you’ve eaten gives you LBM.

• The pasalubong meant for your inaanak is consumed by someone else.

• Your feet hurt because of your new shoes.

• Your hairdo resembles a walis tambo after coming out of a hair salon.

• You manage to get someone pregnant despite using condoms

• Your armpit still sweat heavily despite of using the most expensive deodorant around.

• You still stain your panties during periods, despite using the best napkins around.
• You bilnk the moment your Foto-Me ID picture is taken.

• You’re no fairer even after using whitening products more than three months.

• You go to the other side of the world to buy something that turns out to be expired by the time you reach home.

• Your film gets exposed.

• You cake-fight.

• Your househelp run away with your alkansya.

• You shut your eyes when watching a horror flicks.

• You buy shoes for infants who can’t walk yet.

• You purchase an artist’s original CD based only on his/her present hit.

]]> http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/you-know-you-have-wasted-money-when%e2%80%a6/feed/ There was a time in my life I became afraid to lov http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/there-was-a-time-in-my-life-i-became-afraid-to-lov/ http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/there-was-a-time-in-my-life-i-became-afraid-to-lov/#comments Thu, 12 Apr 2007 00:32:57 +0000 totsherol http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/there-was-a-time-in-my-life-i-became-afraid-to-lov/ There was
a time in my life I became afraid to love. Because all those times I feel I
love, I got hurt. I thought maybe that’s why it’s called “falling” in love. I
would give my all, loving deeply and wholeheartedly. It would be a truly
emotional, extremely euphoric experience. I would dream about the object of my
affection all day and all night, imagining good time together, thinking of what
I can do or give him to show how much I cared. I would feel light as a feather,
energized and excited, literally blooming with the joy I felt inside. Then
somehow something would go wrong and my whole world would crash.
Disappointment. Resentment. Anger. Pain. Why? Can we not love without pain? Is
disappointment really a price to pay for all the happiness we feel when we’re
in love? Should we blindly accept that because we love we get hurt?

It was
only after many years of soul-searching and internalizing inspirational
writings that I discovered that I can love without getting hurt. I finally
understood that unconditional love is the answer.

]]> http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/there-was-a-time-in-my-life-i-became-afraid-to-lov/feed/ Sometimes, http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/sometimes/ http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/sometimes/#comments Thu, 12 Apr 2007 00:30:31 +0000 totsherol http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/sometimes/ Sometimes, we close our eyes and just listen to the echoes of heart. We all fall in love and there are times when we love so much that we lose ourselves and our own emotions. More often than not, we wonder why there are love that grows and love that cold. We would start to search for answers and try to find where love has gone wrong, but in the end, we find ourselves were we started for we can not questioned love when it has its own reasons, love will always be as it always been… silent, mysterious and deeply profound.

Many of us believe that love is forever, that love never dies, only to be disillusioned in the end when we find our hands empty and our hearts longing. We mistakenly have looked at love as a need to be fulfilled. But love is only a gift to us and should not hold it in our hands for we may never find the strength to let it go when it decides to leave. We should only embrace its warmth and glow while it last and feel open our hands when it is time to say goodbye.

When we fall in love with someone, we don’t want that feeling to end for it is everything we are. Everything that we wanted to be. We pray that love will stay and grow in our hearts. But if it doesn’t, then we never let our lives be taken by it, for love should never end when heartaches begin…

There is always a reason why we have to move on when we have to say goodbye to the feelings we wanted to stay forever. Let us not wave our hands with a heavy heart for love will have to set its own wings free and find the place where it belongs. We may lost it but then again, when we close our eyes and listen to the echoes of our hearts, we will hear that feeling resounding silently forever, then we’ll know that it never left us for the good that we have become cause love will always stay… It will always be there reminding us that we should thankful and happy, not because we have lost love, but because for once in our lives, that feeling lived in our hearts and made us happy.

]]> http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/sometimes/feed/ 12 Ways to make a Woman Fall in Love with You http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/12-ways-to-make-a-woman-fall-in-love-with-you/ http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/12-ways-to-make-a-woman-fall-in-love-with-you/#comments Thu, 12 Apr 2007 00:28:32 +0000 totsherol http://totsherol.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/12-ways-to-make-a-woman-fall-in-love-with-you/ 12 Ways to make a Woman Fall in Love with
You

 

Macho brothers
may not believe this. But you’re probably never been head over heels in love.
If you want to make sure your loved one to stay with you for the longest time,
try these tips:

 

  1. Call her. Tell her (truthfully)
         that you can’t wait to see her again. Or call her just to say you were
         thinking about her.
  2. Offer her a backrub, without asking
         for one in return.
  3. Bring her a teddy bear and chicken
         soup when she’s sick.
  4. Slow dance with her (not only on a
         dance floor).
  5. Bring her flowers for no reason.
  6. Always remember your anniversaries
         and bring her something sweet.
  7. Kiss her in a middle of a sentence.
  8. Tell her something about you that
         no one else knows.
  9. Remind her that you still think
         she’s beautiful.
  10. Watch a sappy movie with her.
  11. Surprise her with a candle light
         dinner.
  12. Always tell her you love her.
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